First up I got a new "pasting jig" made. The engineer is likely no longer talking to me, but I got the design I wanted in the end and fantastic it is! Expensive, but I needed a way to speed up production as aligning the film by hand and taping the stencil on while pasting.. well.. basically took forever.
Pasting Frame with Plastic Stencil.
Really expensive SMT Paste going on...
All pasted ready for adding parts.
Parts on..
Into the oven to cook for a while..
Hot stuff!
Cleaned up and checked.. Then into my 32MHz STE for testing..
Job well done

A cat picture

Simms are now on sale in my store.
Packs of 4. https://www.exxosforum.co.uk/atari/store2/#0024
EDIT:
Simms now have one side with solder on the connection pads. Originally I had a thicker PCB, but it was a pain to fit. So I went for a thinner PCB only to find there was bad connections and a larger PCB would be better

As this solder is "random thickness" from pin to pin, it bends the simm socket pins more than others, which means a proper spec simm doesn't make good contact (but it does in a brand new socket!) . So in order to combat "bad simms" basically damaging the simm sockets, I soldered up my simms so the PCB physically fits in the holder, and is forced into shape by the extra solder on my simms, and thus makes good contact then!