Soldering is fine.... (unfortunately)
I took a programmer and removed read protect and set up memory assignment (which I have internal routine to set it up as well) and set up again 288KB flash + 32KB RAM. and it works now!
Issue is that I have internal piece of code to do it at power up, and during programming it should be set up at this value as well.
Edit:
...5 minutes later stopped working again ... AA!!

