Yeah I find your provider's response pretty confusing.
Confirmed though that I can see
www.exxosforum.co.uk coming back from your mail server now though:
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$ telnet 185.52.2.172 25
Trying 185.52.2.172...
Connected to www.exxosforum.co.uk.
Escape character is '^]'.
220 www.exxosforum.co.uk ESMTP Postfix (Ubuntu)
I guess that can work even if it's not how my old brain would like to do it.
www.exxosforum.co.uk resolves to CNAME exxosforum.co.uk, which resolves to A/AAAA records. The IPv4 address resolves back to
www.exxosforum.co.uk. (The PTR record for the v6 address ought to be changed to match at some point.) Maybe outlook is okay with all that.
If I were starting fresh (but you probably have decades of configs to break...): I'd put mail on its own subdomain, mail.exxosforum.co.uk. Then the MX record is clear, and the PTR records would point to mail.exxosforum.co.uk. Clearer separation of concerns, even if the v4 and v6 IP addresses are shared with your web server.
Email today is hellish though, and the big providers don't have a lot of faith in smaller operators.